Question by Kate C: Boyfriend Breakup?
Hey all =)
Me and my boyfriend broke up yesterday and i cryed a little bit but now i feel a lot better. Ever since he rang me a week ago saying he wasent sure how he felt about me ive been crying every single day and nite. Now he wanted to sort out what was wrong with him but im flat out that he either likes me or he doesnt and shouldnt need time to think about that. I mean i deserve better and i dont want to leave my dignity behind.(by begging him to stay with me) i really love him and it hurts sooo much. But i feel that life will get better and we can remain friends. Im going to try anyway.
Has anyone had this. He was my first serious boyfriend and i love him so much but i dont think io would ever want to get back together with him.
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Also all my mates are telling him not to call him or text him because he will never miss me if im always there for him to talk too?
thanks RE- i was the one who broke it off too…it was mutural…he didnt wanna stuff me round and i didnt want to be stuffed around. He wanted to see if we could fix it but i know i did the right thing by putting the tip in that we should break up
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Best answer:
Answer by REinvestments
Hey, breaking up is hard for everyone and it sounds like you are taking it really well and have a good head on your sholders. When he tells you he doesn’t know how he feels about you, i’d take that at face value meaning he doesn’t like you more than friends anymore. I think any attempt from here on out will just be leading you on and playing games, and you are much better than that. Life will get better, and you’ll meet guys who don’t need to break up with you to realize what they had. If you really want to give this guy a second chance, make him prove his worth to you, and don’t take him back on a dime. Listen to your mates on this one, take some time off for yourself, he’s the one who dumped you, so don’t chase him at all. Either way, you’re going to be ok on this one!
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